🧠 More Than the Gym: The Fat Loss Factor Most Women Overlook in Menopause
- Kim Lorello
- Jun 18
- 2 min read

If you’re in perimenopause or postmenopause and feel like your body is working against your efforts to lose fat—despite your time in the gym—you’re not alone.
I’ve been there too.
As someone who’s been lifting weights for over 20 years and always felt confident in my routine, I hit a wall in my 40s. The workouts that used to “work” for me weren’t enough. The scale barely moved. My energy dipped. And I started to question everything I knew.
It wasn’t until I went through the Menopause 2.0 and Girls Gone Strong Menopause Specialist Coaching Certification—and experienced menopause firsthand—that things started to click.
Fat loss in midlife is about more than your workout. It’s about how you move the whole day.
🔍 What Actually Burns Calories?
Your body burns calories in four main ways:
Component | What It Does | Approx. % of Daily Burn |
BMR (Basal Metabolic Rate) | Energy to keep you alive (breathing, organ function) | ~60% |
NEAT (Non-Exercise Activity) | All the movement outside workouts | ~15–20% |
EAT (Exercise Activity) | Your gym sessions, walking, cardio | ~10% |
TEF (Thermic Effect of Food) | Energy used to digest food | ~10% |
➡️ NEAT often burns more calories than your workouts!That's a game-changer for women in midlife.
🏋️♀️ Gym Time Still Matters—But It’s Not Everything
As a coach, I put a huge emphasis on:
Strength training
Rest and recovery
Fueling your body well
These are essential for muscle, metabolism, bone health, and managing stress hormones. But even if you’re crushing your workouts, if your daily lifestyle is mostly sedentary, you’re missing a key piece of the fat-loss puzzle.
NEAT—your non-exercise movement—is a major driver of metabolism.
🚶♀️ So What Is NEAT?
NEAT includes:
Walking the dog
Taking the stairs
Grocery shopping
Gardening
Cleaning the house
Pacing while on the phone
Dancing in the kitchen
It’s not formal exercise—but it counts.
🌿 Why NEAT Is So Important in Menopause
As estrogen declines:
Metabolism naturally slows
Muscle mass decreases
Fat gain becomes easier (especially around the belly)
And we often move less due to desk jobs, caregiving roles, or fatigue.This drop in NEAT contributes to fat gain, inflammation, and insulin resistance.
NEAT helps:✅ Burn more calories✅ Improve blood sugar and insulin sensitivity✅ Ease joint stiffness✅ Boost digestion and energy✅ Lift your mood naturally (hello, endorphins!)
💡 Easy Ways To Boost NEAT
You don’t have to overhaul your life. Try these:
Walk during phone calls
Do short chores between tasks
Take a 5-minute stretch break every hour
Park farther away
Use the stairs instead of the elevator
Small changes, big impact.It’s not about doing more—it’s about moving more often.
💬 Final Thoughts From Me
This shift—realizing that all movement matters—was a turning point in my own midlife journey. It helped me let go of perfection, stop overtraining, and finally feel more in sync with my body.
Now it’s one of the first things I help my clients implement. Because fat loss, energy, and confidence in menopause come from a full lifestyle approach—not just gym time.
✨ If this resonated with you, I’d love to support you.Let’s figure out what works for your body, your schedule, and your goals—without burnout.




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